In the wake of the recent
attack and the unfortunate death of a young boy from Arunachal Pradesh in
Delhi, the raciest attitude of people in North India is again in news. But I
believe that there is nothing new so far the attitude of people of north Indian
cities towards people from African countries and people having different racial
features particularly towards those coming from hill areas and from north-east
in particular is concerned. During my stay of three years in Delhi, somehow the
feeling of being unsafe was always there and fact is that Delhi has never been
a woman friendly city. Above all language spoken on its streets is as rough as
its extreme weather conditions. Years of misrule in many northern states have
forced youths from these areas to migrate to Delhi in search of both education
and livelihood. This has resulted in evolution of rent culture in many areas of
Delhi where main source of income of large number of house owners is rent only
and a whole economy of such areas is dependent upon these migrated people from
other states.
Because
of this lots of jobs have been created in and around Delhi in both goods and
services sector. In this situation locals should have not only been thankful to
the people from other states but they should treat these migrating people with
respect rather than showing any contempt or misbehaving in any manner. I have
had opportunity to see many Bihari students living in hellish conditions in
many parts of Delhi still paying exorbitantly to the local house owners only in
anticipation that they would be able to make it big in the alien place because
situation was even bad in back their home states.
I was
wondering as to whether the present Delhi government is not playing cahoots
with locals, particularly local traders, in opposing the FDI in retail.
Apparently in their sub-conscious mind, they are aware that many jobs created
in this sector would be cornered by these English-speaking smart and polished youths
from the North East. This is not very uncommon to see youths from North-Eastern
region working in malls, departmental stores and shops in various parts of
Delhi and around it. Also the kinds of expertise required for working in
service sectors like call centers and retails, these youths are best suited
again for the same reasons. We need to learnt lessons from this unfortunate
incident and this country needs to take some concrete steps with clear
objective to integrate our youths from the North- East in the mainstream.
This
thought process has pulled me back to my college days in BCE Patna where many
of my friends were from North-East and I have vivid recollections of the time
spent with them. The carefree birds from the hilly region were more than a gush
of fresh air for all of us who had spent all our times in the same state. Many
of them were much ahead of time when their respective lives were only in the
present tense. Those students were very fond of western dress, western music
and western movies. I can’t deny the fact that I had seen all initial Jackie Chan’s
and Stallone’s action movies with them only. I sincerely think in hindsight
that I could have imbibed the
attitude of being careless towards studies also from them which otherwise was
of not use subsequently in life and maybe I could have at least enjoyed my days
in the Engineering college the way they did.
I can recall vividly
one shivaratri day when I was in final year. My very good friend Sanna from
Manipur came to my room with grim look and requested me to come to his room reflecting
as if there was something very very serious. When I entered into his room I was
surprised to find around twenty of them, all from North East and from first
year to final year were present in the room and some of them were sitting on
floor and many were sitting on the bed. Front part of the room was vacated by
shifting beds and there was a small statue of Shiva-Parvati on the floor.
Everyone was staring me very expectantly.
Sanna requested me pour
the milk, stored in a small vessel, on the statue apparently to perform the puja
and to start the shivaratri celebrations. I was not only surprised but also I
was thinking why me? But I had to comply and I folded my hands and offered my obeisance
while muttering some mantra praising the Lord and then poured the milk on the
statue.
Suddenly it was
commotion all over and everybody was chanting “Har Har Mahadev” and “Jai Jai
Shiv Shambho” and in a flash couple of packets of marijuana was produced
and in a swift action and it was cut, rubbed and again very swiftly mixed with
little tobacco and transferred to emptied
cigarettes. By the time I could recollect as to what was happening around, the
room was full of sweet smoke. Many
of them came to me and wished me a “Happy Mahashivaratri” as well.
I can still
recall that it was examination time and I was intending to go back to my
studies in my room but I could not resist enquiring from him.
“Hey Sanna, I am still Puzzled as to why did you
call me for their puja”, somehow I was still sniffing the smoke.
He was smiling and he put his hands across my
shoulders and told sheepishly.
“We have to at least be honest with the god and
after a lot of discussions we could not think of anyone else but you who was yet to
be thoroughly corrupted”, I was just listening to him while he was smiling
crookedly.
I
just could not make out as to whether he was complimenting or just was being sarcastic
while going back to my room. In hindsight I could think of only the smiling
faces and innocent souls with whom I developed so much of intimacy and which
helped me in developing my very different outlook towards the world and towards
the life. I can still listen my dear friend Taka speaking to me.
“I am not little worried
about it” pronouncing all its “Ts” as pronounced in “Teeth” when he discovered
that he could secure only 2 marks out of 15 in mathematics terminal paper in
the second year.
My dear friends from
North East! I am so thankful to you all for teaching me the lesson of not being
worried about anything in life.

Its amazing... I do agree.. We should peep in to our heart.. Thanks brother for a nice blog..
ReplyDeleteThe problem lies in the deliberate political misunderstanding created by the center in the north east..to most of the mainland Indians north east is an alien territory. Even the media doesn't bother about it much unless it is a catastrophe of some magnitude.
ReplyDeleteWhoever have interacted with people from north-east, they have pleasant memories.
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